OK. I've been thinking about how to phrase this so I still keep my life private and I think I've got it... I enjoy this genre. A lot. Many of my friends do, as well. I know you'd find a large and enthusiastic audience, were you to share what you've created. Sex in our society is often vanilla on the outside looking in, but it's behind closed doors where we find those willing to expand and broaden their scope of 'comfortable'. I really do feel that 'Fifty Shades...' is being used as a poor how-to guide for experimentation. That makes me nervous on so many levels. I'm not suggesting you write BDSM For Dummies, 'cuase...no. I am suggesting that your commitment to aftercare and deep knowledge of a partner is a gift. It's a gift which so many are deprived of, due to the lack of responible information. There just aren't that many role models out there. If your characters could initiate conversations and sharing of ideas... then, you MUST try! I would gratefully and loudly support such an endeavor. Does that make a difference?